How does One become more mature?
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siverbullet 9 years, 7 months ago.
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I need to ask something. And yes I looked on Google didn’t really helped me. Anyway, how does one become more mature of him self?
Well, I have my own perspective. For me one is mature when he knows that there are times he can joke and times he should act serious. There are times when someone jokes around in serious situations and asks silly questions. It’s also when you know how to act in different situations.This is how I define maturity, some people might have a different opinion. This is my definition of maturity. It might be incorrect, but that’s my perspective, Hope I helped you.
You cannot ask somebody else to tell you how to do it. The only way to succeed in doing it is by finding the path to maturity yourself.
Generally, the idea of being “mature” is considered: (General, not limited to)
-Being nice to other people.
. . . .An example of this: Don’t insult, keep doors open for others (this is mostly irl related), etc…
-Being sane.
. . . .If you are insane, people won’t see you as “mature” that often, tough being sane or insane is partially genetically determined, or insanity can be caused by series of events or past experience (car accidents could lead to traumas, which could cause people to go insane)(Being insane doesn’t mean you can’t be mature, but it will require more work to be done, it’s how the human mind works).
-Knowledge.
. . . .If you have alot of knowledge, chances that people will be seeing you as “mature” are increased. (Tough lacking knowledge doesn’t mean you’re not “mature”)But like I said in the beginning, you need to find your path to maturity yourself, others cannot help you with it.
“Work on yourself before trying to change somebody else, nobody is perfect”Last I can say is: good luck.
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This reply was modified 9 years, 7 months ago by
xZero_Strike.
If thats really true. Then I am already mature 😀
To be more mature, your grammar and words need to be fluent. Honestly your grammar needs work on but good enough :).
You also need to know when to joke and when not to. Let’s give an example:
Someone on Skype: OMG (name) passed away!
You: OMG so funny haha…What if (name) actually did pass away? “Someone on Skype” won’t be happy.
You should also consider others, that’s one of the many things of maturity.
Don’t swear too much, btw. (says the 10 year old that always swears)
And, slang. It isn’t always time for slang.
(Talking to AliThePro) xD
Ok…I’d have to agree with Own that the definition of maturity varies with different people’s opinions. I think, however, that things like knowing when to draw the line and being kind to others are common things that people look for in a mature person. I would say as my personal opinion that high intelligence and flawless grammar aren’t required for maturity (although obviously if you can’t understand a person because of their grammar it’s hard to call them mature).
Obviously this is just my opinion, I’m sure other people disagree. But still, hope this helped.
HOW TO BECOME MATURE
1)Touch the rainbow!
2)feel the rainbow
3)TASTE the rainbow!One must be a gentileman 😀 to be mature.
AnonymousJust be someone who is sensible enough, I am sensible enough, why am I always hated -.-? Is my intelligence too high for you all? -.- -.- -.-
Well melee.. I don’t know but remember that day in prison where someone type like a Math question? Then we all like having fun answering it. Then all the sudden you talk like you’re showing off? I don’t know that’s what I thinked of..
You kinda show of your smartness to people and yea that’s what I thinked of about that day
It’s cool that you have high intelligence but try not to make people want to know your intelligency just lay low.
Like me, I’m kinda the best English student in my class but I intend to make it not high thing cause I know my friends will start hating on me lol
I’m just saying
AnonymousPeople have been asking me to solve complicated problems (Especially Time zones). And then there are people who asks me to shut up and stop being a show off, when I am clearly answering questions -.-
This is just ironic enough
One must possess the “not to be eres” attitude to be mature.
AnonymousSquirtle, that ‘attitude’ does not exist.
It does, but I won’t translate or tell you the real meaning behind it.
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