I got the message.

[TheHighOreoParticipant Karma: 1 pt]

I got the message how people really think about. About how they called me “Most evil mod ever”, “fat b*tch”, “Heartless guy in the world”, etc.
To be honest with all of ya, that wasn’t what I actually wanted to be.
Everyone I knew told me that this world needs a person to be harsh to live in. Guess they were wrong, huh? I also knew that these comments were from people who I voted down on their mod apps. I am going to be honest, again. Almost every single one of you was great in game, and I really can’t help not voting up, but I just thought that would help. Listen, everyone, I really apologize for every single thing that I have done to everyone, and if it matters that much to everyone, I take back every single vote I voted ever since the mod apps were opened, and I also apologize for my harsh way of deciding on all ban appeals. I will do my best to change my personality, but I still need your help.
I am sick of lies guys, please tell me honestly, what are the negatives in my personality? Please don’t post anything good about me, list everything horrible I have, and I will be fixing it.
Thank you for taking time to read this everyone.

TheHighOreo
P.S. Don’t bother asking how I knew about what you guys say, I am not saying. Also, by “sick of lying” and all of that stuff, I don’t mean anyone in specific at all, please don’t misunderstand me people.

EDIT: Please, if you want to be harsh, be as much as you can, It something like revenge over how I was towards all of you.

• This topic was modified 10 years, 9 months ago by  TheHighOreo.

[AgentLOLz_Participant]

Tasty Oreo … ( or abdo ) I disagree with every single person that did say something bad about you ( Even thought you said not to post good thing about you ) You are a nice guy … Evry single mod app that you voted UP OR DOWN I agree with you . If maybe people are saying that you’re mean that is wrong… Maybe the mod duties made you a bite harder and I totally understand since I have some experience with dat … Oreo always remember you are a good person and don’t listen to the crazy people that said all these things about you.

[DicedeadParticipant Karma: 3 pts]

Time to be honest.
As an introduction, I would like to thank you for letting those, like me, who didn’t got the courage to say this in the other ( http://eternalcraft.com/index.php/forums/topic/what-do-you-think-of-me/ ) topic you made, ages ago.
So, you’ve changed a lot, before and after you got promoted. I’ll start talking about your mood.
Before, you were simply way more cooler, with anyone. It was almost your hobby to distribute your happiness, and to make people laugh. You were paying attention to every word you say. I mean by this not the grammar, but the meaning, whether to know if it is harsh or not.
Now.. Instead of donating happiness words, it became harsh sentences. You stopped mesurating each letter by it’s meaning. You did now, but for your grammar. I can say this is the only thing that improved.
The following part will probably be the “harshest” one. I tried to make it the less possible.
Let’s just don’t get lines from left to right: You became arrogant. There wasn’t even any tear of arrogance before.. Always thinking for others than thinking for you.. But old times dissapeared. It started evoluating in the bad way. I mean, the very bad way.
For the game: I would be simply insolent and idiot to say anything I’m not 200% sure of, because, after all, the game is 75% of everything.
I don’t connect that much to SV, but when I do and that you are here, you often try to demoralise someone who feels proud of himself. Yourself, you may take it as a joke, or I don’t know, but I doubt every single one will take it like that. Before getting promoted, you were helping anyone in need in depth, with passion, modesty, and after having the dark-green name.. Help beginned to be delivered neatly. I mean: When you say something, words were cold, tranchant. You can only laugh with sarcasm, now..
But wanna know something? It is not completely your fault. It’s the fault of all those, like me, never expressed their true opinions about you. Personally, I didn’t even minded to qualify you with the irrespectuous words you’ve mentionned, let’s say this clearly, but since others did, and that you got the info, you asked for answers. Here’s one.
In conclusion about you: You never wanted this bad temperament and mood, but it’s pursueding you. Please manage to escape from them.

And, since it’s still time to be honest..
Since December, the community have changed a lot. Just look at the posts on the forums. Oreo is.. The perfect example of the evolution of EC and it’s community.

Thank you for reading. It’s not my right to pretend I can force something to change, but it is our duty to say what we feel to make the server better.

Thank you for this topic, this second chance, Oreo. I hope I passed the message. I know I’ll get very bad comments, but it’s alright.
It’ll ever be alright.

[Xavier3479Participant]

A lot of your votes are valid. Though with some i do agree you went a little far and were extremely rude. Just dont be so harsh.

[Rogue_ArtParticipant Karma: 16 pts]

TheHighOreo, do you know why we keep you as an ExpertMod; because you are cruel.
We need a mod that isn’t like “Oh noes! My best friend is banned! I’ll help him get unbanned :D”. No. You were the greatest supporter when ttram got banned the first time(because he was your friend), but the second time he got banned, you were totally against him(Not showing mercy to your friend). I’d say you should chill-out when people are talking to you, as yesterday, EternalLife was thanking you, and you took it the wrong way. Plus don’t take back every vote you voted, its actually a case of people who want to be mod being bad candidates rather than you being a evil person. Overall, I think you’re a great mod, but you should enjoy the server more rather than be so ‘agonized’.

[skills641Participant Karma: 3 pts]

I have seen you talk to the community, and it seems that you don’t care for them; also you give the idea that everyone is against you, which enhances your hostile mood towards them.

As for the Moderator Applications, you vote them based off their Application. The idea is to vote them based off their performance in the server, not that they say, “I want to help,” isn’t good enough, but if they make an effort and show that they do, then it doesn’t really matter at all, if they help, they help. It’s not an essay application, it’s a review sheet based off if you know them or not. That’s how and when you should vote. Saying I don’t see you online, is a valid reason, or wait and see if you do see them and see how they act on the server.

Also that advice on, “People need to be harsh in the world,” there are already corrupted people, and the reputation that you are getting is expected. The only people that shine are the ones who stand up against these people.

To pretty much summarize everything, just relax take a deep breathe and Enjoy Life, and hopefully you’ll find true happiness

[ReconStrikeDeltaParticipant]

Honesty Oreo, you have a really hostile tone of saying things. I get you are trying to help and I appreciate you for it. However you honestly are not helping out by being so harsh. In fact I dare say you are really destroying a person’s esteem by the way you talk. You have a tone of arrogance which I really hate in any person. It really bites since everytime I see you write something, I really want to disagree with you sometimes on posts in the way you talk, but I don’t want to be next to get a beating from you online with how you talk and on top of that you are a mod and I don’t want to disrespect you on the way you think things should go. I’m not asking you to sugar coat everything since some people on the server really need that kick in the ass, however I’d like to ask you to TONE IT DOWN A BIT because honestly the way your words come out really can hurt someone. Even skills thinks you are talking in a way that makes people think you don’t care about them.

Another thing, forget the people who call you crap. They aren’t worth your time. You were chosen as a moderator because the team thought of you as a good asset to them. They are just pissed because you said the truth. However they may have the right to be angry at you for your tone, but they don’t have the right to be pissed at you for you telling the truth.

For my point of view, you honestly piss me off sometimes with your attitude. Sometimes I feel I want to tell you how I feel about your act, but again as I said above, I don’t really feel like getting an ass beating from you online. I respect you and all for your service to the server, but honestly this is a part of you I just cannot overlook. I’m not saying this for revenge…you shouldn’t even put that on your post since people will now make up lies probably against you. You are a good mod, just tone it DOWN A BIT again! For crying out loud man, I really sometimes have to hold back on freaking out about your attitude, but as I say for the third time, don’t want my ass beat.

[JungleNoob53Participant]

Well I disagree with some people here but I think that TheHighOreo is still a good mod, even though he gets a little harsh sometimes his reasons are still reasonable. I think of him as a really good mod though because if there were no harsh mods I think the server would go a bit bizarre. Like if someone gets banned a very nice mod will be like ” oh i’ll give him another chance”, next time he does it again, then the mod gets him banned, then he comes back after 1 year and be’s like oh I miss the server a lot and i’ll promise that i will not do what i did. That mod then unbans him, he does it again. Then he gets banned again, thats just too much work just for one person to get banned, people like oreo would be like oh that guy he scammed or something and bans him, he will barely ever bother to scam again. And plus when oreo is voting for mods, just because he votes down a lot does not mean you guys can disrespect him that much, its called “opinions”. Everybody has opinions.

[BlonFTWParticipant]

To be honest, some mods are just showing their opinions and just saying some advice that could help them through their problems, and I see TheHighOreo is doing that and I see nothing wrong about it. Doesn’t mean someone talks bad about your app it means they care or worry about you. I mean why you gotta talk negative its like adding oil to the fire and causing more things that isnt suppose to happen. Being a mod is not that easy as you think, they have to be calm for everything and help other people that are in need and while you are making a mod mad inside they cant show/express it out. Its hard to keep a feeling when someone is judging/mocking you and it happens to me all the time. So I would rather you stop it and it would HELP us mods so much! Hope you read this and understand what we go through. And its more painful for higher ups. Like an Guard+ mod is on and your spamming <modsname> “I need a chest to be removed” “I’ve been waiting for f***ing 10 mins why are you not helping me? You are a bad mod!” Etc. Guards+ are helping other people while you are just making them impatient.

[TrevishBlocked]

Well My opinion is sometimes you are harsh to others and they say a small thing like ”You are so annoying Oreo”( which is not the truth) you take it to be personal.You better avoid these comments as if you did not see anything or give them a simple reply like ”Hmm” or ‘Thx’ to show that you were not affected by that, Otherwise you are a good mod!

[PieParticipant]

I don’t have too much to say as I never seem to conjure up an essay when I wish to on the forums.

Moving on, you are an epic mod. You enforce the rules at all times, you are a kind guy who means well. Your grammar has grown to far lengths, interested to know what/who inspired that. However, your way of getting a message across can be a bit volatile, and I’ve seen in your posts that you tend to just agree to disagree 100% with someone’s Mod app, however I must admit the reasons are fairly valid, as ‘loud and clear’ as you make them. And at some point, you kinda started to scare me a bit with the hostile tone, but due to this post we are able to let you know your cons (mainly cons, but also pros too). Also, don’t let any criticism get to your head. If it’s constructive (like at least the most of these points), then y’know, just take it on the chin and move on, trying to improve yourself based on the criticism. What you shouldn’t let get to your head is those who address you as anything vulgar, or those who seem to bring themselves up by putting others down. If you do let them, then you will lose your temper and potentially your happiness altogether. I also think sometimes you try a teensy bit too hard. Just relax, and come back to Earth. If you need any help, feel free to contact the higher ranks.

That’s all what I needed to say, and hopefully you’ll take this in as an important message rather than venomous criticism of your moderating methods. (Is this accepted as an essay?)

[GrassFaeParticipant]

Oreo, you may be harsh.. but what I find is harsh is not good but not bad because its how the person recieving the harsh remarks does about it. You are actually helping them. Alot. You kind of give good advice for them to correct their mistake. It’s not that you are harsh sometimes, but when you bold and caps your vote down, it seems very harsh. Once again, its only your opinion, we all experience haters. The worst people are hated for being dumb, but some of the best people are hated for being so understanding to others and they are jealous. Which is you. Just take those harsh remarks and turn them into something optimistic because that’s the key to success in my point of view and oreo alot of people look up to you for the characteristics you carry giving your opinions. Keep in mind that I admire some aspects of you and just don’t stop believing in yourself! ;D

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